5 Things Failure Teaches Us

5 Things Failure Teaches Us

It’s been said; if your dreams don’t scare you, they’re probably not big enough. While that may be true, most of us are not so much afraid of dreaming, as we’re afraid of the results of failing big. As a counselor, I’ve seen how one of the biggest hurdles for many is...
A Christian View on Failure

A Christian View on Failure

What is it about failure we’re so afraid of? We are often afraid to try because we’re afraid we may fail. The truth is, we often learn more in failure than we ever learn in success. My prayer for this article is not to glorify failure, or to make light of it, but to...
How to Deal with an Empty Nest

How to Deal with an Empty Nest

Eighteen, or so, years ago you went through one of the biggest transitions in life, childbirth. You brought home a tiny, little bundle and have spent nearly two decades helping that little life learn and grow. You’ve been a full time chauffeur, cook, maid, coach, and...
Unhappy Ever After

Unhappy Ever After

What happens when our life stories don’t have a happy ending? We all love the story of the person who overcomes some great life challenge. You know the triumphant and heroic accounts shared of people, who crashed and burned, only to rise up and soar to new heights. We...
What Resilient People Seem to Know

What Resilient People Seem to Know

Some of happiest people I know seem to have one thing in common. They’re resilient! I marvel at these people who have an authenticity and transparency about them that reflects an openness and wiliness to take risks, despite losses and failures in their life. How do...
The Search for Resiliency

The Search for Resiliency

The Resiliency of a Ghost Town High in the rugged Sierra Nevadas of Northern California lies the ghost town of Bodie. Bodie is a town that time has all but forgotten. The majority of its population abandoned it a century ago. In the late 1800s, Bodie was the third...